tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88422474602634126652024-02-19T19:10:22.976-05:00Even If My Voice ShakesSharing lessons learned from God often through the very ordinary things of life. Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.comBlogger262125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-53860730702987784112023-03-12T21:04:00.001-04:002023-03-12T21:05:32.184-04:00A Way Back<p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">I am currently doing a Bible study of Ruth through the First 5 app. If you don't know what that is it is created by Proverbs 31 and they have many studies available. Of the studies that I've done I would say they are for anyone, not just women. They begin with a foundations week and then have lessons Mondays-Fridays and a weekend study. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: "Arima Madurai";">Well, I started this one late and missed the foundations week, but I can go back and do it anytime. I got something out of the daily teachings each day and even some things beyond the teachings. The weekend one for this past week was called 'The Way Back". The teaching was good but I was struck with a similarity. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Jacob sent his sons to Egypt because there was a famine in the land, the Promised Land. If you know the story you know they found much more than food in Egypt. They found their brother, Joseph, that they sold into slavery and he was the reason their family was rescued from death. Pharaoh invited his father and extensive family to come to Egypt to live and offered them the best land (Genesis 45). That's a pretty good offer, but they were already living in the land promised to his grandfather, Abraham. Why should they leave that land, even for the best land of Egypt? Even in a famine?</span></p><p><span style="font-family: "Arima Madurai";">Jacob, or Israel as he's called at this point, heads out to Egypt, but he had his doubts. He stops in Beersheba and offers sacrifices to God. God spoke to him and told him not to fear going to Egypt. He promised to make his family into a great nation while in Egypt (Genesis 46). Interestingly, it might have been the best land but it was separate from the Egyptians because they detested shepherds. Hmm, Jesus is the Great Shepherd. But that's a whole different discussion.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: "Arima Madurai";">Eventually, over 400 years of living there, they went from honored guests to slaves. I wonder how many people over the years thought about God telling Jacob to not fear going there, even though it obviously didn't turn out well for them. They did indeed become a huge nation, but great? </span></p><p><span style="font-family: "Arima Madurai";">Jump ahead a ways and Moses is leading them out of Egypt and back to the Promise Land. Even though they were slaves, they left with gold and silver and clothes given to them by the Egyptians who begged them to leave. They left with increase.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: "Arima Madurai";">Now back to Ruth. Naomi and her husband, </span><span style="font-family: "Arima Madurai";">Elimelek,</span><span style="font-family: "Arima Madurai";"> and two sons are about to leave the Promise Land due, once again, to famine. They did not go to back to Egypt but went to the closer land of Moab. Moab was their enemy, but they went anyway. This time is different though. There is no mention of them making sacrifices and hearing from God to go. There is no invitation from the ruler of Moab. There is no mention of choice land or even what Elimelek would do when he got there.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Elimelek dies and his sons marry Moabite women and then after living in Moab for 10 years the sons die as well. Naomi hears that the famine is finally over and God has provided for His people, so she decides to go home. She leaves Moab with her daughter-in-laws and it seems nothing else. No one handed her gold or silver or even clothes as she left. All she had with her was these young women and one of them she convinces to go back home. She left with decrease.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Ruth, her daughter-in-law who does return with her, eventually becomes the grandmother of King David and the multiple times-great grandmother of Jesus. So Naomi didn't leave with nothing.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Famine drove both Jacob and his family out of the Promised Land and famine drove Naomi and her family out of the same land. God told Jacob to not fear going and that they would become a great nation. There is no evidence that Elimelek spoke to God about it at all. Jacob's family did grow into a great nation. Elimelek's family fell apart. The Israelites were given gifts to get out. Naomi was given nothing, but Ruth chose to go with her, and she turned out to be a life-saving gift. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">We all face our own versions of famine. If we talk to God and listen to Him, He will direct our steps. Even if He takes us into a place we never thought we'd go. Or we can take matters into our own hands and step out of His plan and will. But here's the thing. In both cases we can go back. We can end up right back in His promises. We may end up with treasures or we may end up back there with new people in our lives. We may go back with more or with less. But regardless He still has a plan. He still has a purpose. He still has a destiny for us. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Sometimes I think that I have more power than I do, and that my mis-steps mean His will can't be accomplished. Here's the thing, He already knew I'd make the mis-steps and included them in the plan. And I'm definitely not powerful enough to thwart His plans. I just need to go back to Him. Because He still has a plan for me. He still has a purpose. He still has my destiny. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;"><br /></span></p>Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-51013929587740827892023-02-21T20:50:00.001-05:002023-02-21T20:50:20.261-05:00In His Hands<p>Yesterday morning I was sitting at my vanity getting ready for work and listening to a group of women discussing trusting God on a YouTube video. Trusting God is not an easy one for me, and I'm sure that I'm not the only one who struggles with trusting Him. But as these women spoke one of them said something that struck me. I stopped putting on my makeup and prayed for someone in line with what she had said. I'd share what she said, but I honestly don't remember what it was. </p><p>As I prayed I was given the most amazing visual by God. I saw this person in God's hands. As I continued to pray and talked with God about keeping this person even as the choices may or may not be for his good. I asked God to keep him even as he tried to do things his way. This is when the image of God's hands became truly amazing. I saw this person running towards the edge of God's hands and instead of falling off His hands grow. They didn't shift, like I would have expect them to, they actually grew. The person in His hands ran along the edge but the hands just got bigger and bigger. I realized that He was safe in God's hands.</p><p>I understood that God keeps us not by cupping us between His hands, like a caught creature in some small boy's hands. If that was how He held us we would panic and want out. We wouldn't see Him as Savior but rather Captor. And once He'd open them, just a little bit to peek at us, we would make a run for it. God doesn't hold us like that. His hands are cupped wide open like a bowl. He lets us ran around in the freedom of His hands. When we need cradling His hands shrink to hold us close. When we need the freedom to explore choices, maybe even bad ones, His hands grow large enough for us to explore but still be safe and secure. Being held in God's hands doesn't mean stifled and caught, it means freedom, love, security. It means knowing that even if I try to run away from God His hands are large enough to keep me safe from my own bad choices. </p><p>I know I can't do what God showed me justice but I hope I helped you see His hands differently. </p>Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-16369877083736309732023-02-19T05:46:00.006-05:002023-02-19T05:49:58.876-05:00Let Those Words Sink In<p> <span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">"And all were astonished at the majesty of God. But while they were all marveling at everything He was doing, Jesus said to his disciples, 'Let these words sink into your ears: The Son of Man is about to be delivered into the hands of men.' But they did not understand this saying, and it was concealed from them, so that they might not perceive it. And they were afraid to ask Him about this saying." Luke 9:43-45 ESV</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">What struck me while reading these three verses was, "how often does God speak to me, but I don't understand it? How often do I not understand because of the limits of my human brain and how often is it because I'm not spiritually ready to perceive it yet?"</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">I love that Jesus told them to let the words sink in. Have you ever been asked or asked someone else "did it finally sink in?" when there's a lightbulb moment? All the gears are turning and the pieces are fitting in and you just get it. Sometimes it's a quick figuring-it-out and sometimes it takes years before you see everything for what it actually means. But His saying to them to let it sink in gives me hope that His words will sink in for me too. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">I've heard so many messages preached about how slow the disciples were or dumb the Israelites were, but how am I an quicker, any brighter? Really, I'm not. God still speaks. He speaks through His Word. He speaks through His creation, whether that be man, beast, seasons, sunshine, whatever. He's revealed to me personally about my own stubborn nature through my cats and dogs. Nothing like thinking your smarter than an animal until you realize your own foolish actions while watching theirs. Humbling, if you let it be. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Often He tells me things but I don't get. I beat myself up for it. And just like the disciples, I'm too afraid to ask. But who am I to think that somehow I would get what God is trying to say any better or more quickly than the 12 men who spend almost every moment over 3 years with Jesus? They were as close as brothers and yet there were plenty of times that they didn't understand. God opened the eyes and ears of them at the right time. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">I recently had a text conversation with a fellow teacher in which the other person wrote, "...you would think after all these years following Jesus I would learn...". My reply was meant to be funny but afterwards I really thought about how true it is. "....we are hard headed sometimes and need remediation". As a teacher, I can't just teach it again the exact same way or I'll end up with the exact same puzzled faces looking at me. And there are times when I have to realize it doesn't matter how many different ways I teach it if the child or children aren't at a developmental level yet to perceive it. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">How often does God need to adjust the lesson in order to try to help me figure it out? How often does He word it differently? But how often does He not say it again because even though I've heard it I'm not at a spiritual developmental level to understand it yet? </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">We try to make it sound like it's easy by saying things like "He speaks and all I have to listen." Yes, but sometimes He speaks and even though I've listened I'm not going to get it...yet. As someone who beats myself up for not getting it, for not understanding, for needing some remediation, it's nice to know sometimes it's not a matter of not hearing God, but rather not being ready to understand the true meaning or impact of His words yet. He still speaks. He also still prepares us to perceive what He previously said.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">So keep listening, because He's still talking. And keep asking for spiritual maturity to understand. But fair warning spiritual maturity only comes from emotional, physical, and/or spiritual growing pains. But when we can perceive what he's saying all those growing pains become worth it.</span></p>Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0North Carolina, USA35.7595731 -79.0192996999999917.4493392638211517 -114.17554969999999 64.06980693617885 -43.863049699999991tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-84810868286731185112022-05-03T19:23:00.002-04:002023-02-19T05:59:42.725-05:00Amazing Dream<p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Today my Facebook memory popped up with this incredible dream that I had a year ago. I can't believe I forgot that I even had this dream. See I dream a lot. A lot! But many are just bizarre and forget them pretty quickly, but the ones like this one, I usually remember. I'm so glad that I typed this dream up so that it could be a memory for me to see today. I will look forward to this memory popping up on my Facebook each year. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Here's the post about the dream.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">"Last night I had a dream and in it there was a place that I really wanted to be. An authority type explained why I couldn't go there. It wasn't said meanly or anything. It wasn't loud or threatening. It was stated factually. However, fear kicked in and those words that play a loop in my mind started in. Flight was my answer. But when I turned around to flea, I was face to face with myself and before I could react, other me threw arms around me. Other me got right in my ear and whisper, "stop, turn around, stand. This isn't going to turn out as he said." Other me turned me around, gave my shoulders a reassuring squeeze...and then I woke up. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">I know that other me was God's Truth speaking into that place of longing and to that place that lets fear win. I got up and went for my walk and listen to a podcast that "just so happened" to be about listening to the right Voice and used the David and Goliath encounter to make the point. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">I love how God does that! Can't say I'm looking forward to facing this particular giant but I am looking forward to seeing it fall!</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Lord, help me stop, turn around, and stand in the face of fear because You are with me."</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">I know! Such a powerful dream! </span></p>Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-20752635833167114522022-04-10T10:07:00.008-04:002023-02-19T05:59:23.862-05:00Putting My Feet In<p style="text-indent: 0px;"><b><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">"So when the people set out from their tents to pass over the Jordan with the priests bearing the ark of the covenant before the people, and as soon as those bearing the ark had come as far as the Jordan, and the feet of the priests bearing the ark were dipped in the brink of the water (now the Jordan overflows all its banks throughout the time of harvest), the eaters coming down from above stood and rose up in a heap very far away, at Adam, the city that is beside Zarethan, and those flowing toward the Sea of Arabah, the Salt Sea, were completely cut off. And the people passed over opposite Jericho. Now the priests bearing the ark of the covenant of the LORD stood firmly on dry ground in the midst of the Jordan, and all Israel was passing over on dry ground until all the nation finished passing over the Jordan."</span></b></p><p style="text-indent: 0px;"><b><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Joshua 3:14-17</span></b></p><p style="text-indent: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">I love reading familiar Scripture and seeing something for the first time, or more accurately gaining greater insight from God. I love the book of Joshua. I read it many, many times. As a history lover this book fits that desire to know what happen, but I also love it because it reveals so much about entering in to what God has for a personal Promised Land. </span></p><p style="text-indent: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Joshua 3:14-17 is the end of the chapter in which the Israelites are about to take their first, collective steps into the land promised to their father and mothers. A land promised to their forefather Abraham. The people gather up all they had, which couldn't have been too much since they needed to be able to pack it up and carry it with them as they wondered in the Wilderness. <i>Side note - they couldn't bring in too much baggage. That just struck me.</i> They were to follow the priests into the Jordan River and make their way across. </span></p><p style="text-indent: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">The priests were to enter the river, carrying the Ark of the Covenant, and as their feet dipped in the brink of the water the water coming toward them stopped. Not near them, but far away. I wonder if it was too far for them to see the wall of water. Reason would tell me that it would have dried up for a ways downstream considering nothing was flowing into it. I guess that would make it possible for such a large group of people to pass through. </span></p><p style="text-indent: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">I wonder this because it is one of the differences I notice about the Israelites' parents and grandparents in their crossing of the Red Sea. In Exodus 14 it states that the water was divided and that there was a wall of water on both the right and the left. Is it because seas and rivers differ in the way they flow? Rivers flow one way, but seas have tides that move in and out. Could that be why the Red Sea has walls on either side, and presumably within sight of the Israelites, and the Jordan is risen up in one very high heap far away? </span></p><p style="text-indent: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Another difference is Moses held a staff over the waters of the Red Sea and God divided the waters. In Joshua, we find that the priests have to entered the water before God divided it. There had to be at least four priests carrying the ark, one for each corner. However, it may have been too heavy for just four men, so maybe there were six or even more. Why even wonder about how many priests there were? Well, it doesn't say when the first priest dipped in it says when the priests dipped in the brink the waters stopped. So did they all have to be in before it dried up? Or was it just as the first two entered that it dried up? </span></p><p style="text-indent: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">The crossing of the two bodies of water have a lot of similarities but when looked at closely, I notice many differences. In one they were being pursued. In another they are entering in as the conquers. In one God shows them right before their eyes the walls of water and in the other, presumably, they don't see the heap of water at all. In both the land is dry. But did one take more faith than the other?</span></p><p style="text-indent: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Back to those priests and their feet. They had to entered into the water of a overflowing river. God didn't divide it ahead of time. They had to step in. If it was all the priests who had to enter, imagine the faith the ones farthest in had to have to believe that once the last were in it would stop flowing. Or if it was just the first two, were the first two chosen because they exercised the most faith beforehand and that is why they were first? Either way these men had to be scared to enter an overflowing, probably fast moving, river and have a least mustard seed size faith that God would dry it up for them. The Israelites crossing the Red Sea were gripped by fear of the enemy behind them and no one had to touch water for their rescue to take place. This Joshua group of Israelites had an enemy waiting for them, and in order to press into the promise they had to get their feet wet, at least a handful of them did. </span></p><p style="text-indent: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">In my own life, I look to God to provide Red Sea types of crossings. I want to stand there, maybe reach an arm out, and watch the walls of the sea in my life on either side as I move through the way He has created. But that miracle way was for when being pursued. If I want to enter into the promises of God I can't just stand there. I have to take my little mustard seed size faith and step into the waters. The end result is still the same. God still dries up the impossible way so that I can get across. Next comes either the hurried steps of one being pursued or the hesitant steps of being hopeful as entering into a promise but also knowing there is an enemy and battles to fight up ahead. </span></p><p style="text-indent: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">As scary as both are, once across the Red Sea the enemy was destroyed as the walls caved in and water flooded over them. They experienced immediate relief (not that the rest of their journey was easy because we know it wasn't.) Once across the Jordan River the waters start to flow and you have only a few choices: let fear drive you to re-enter the flooding waters and drown; let fear keep you stuck in that spot; or although afraid take the next step into the promise, and the next step, and the next, and the next. You get the point. </span></p><p style="text-indent: 0px;"><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">I want to be like the priests who stepped in the raging water, came out on dry land with dry feet, and kept moving forward into the promise and a deeper relationship with God. </span></p>Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-59108052421929518082021-01-10T08:17:00.004-05:002023-02-19T05:58:51.297-05:00Grieving Again, and Again<p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai; font-size: large;">"For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:" <a href="https://www.blueletterbible.org/esv/ecc/3/1/s_662001" target="_blank">Ecclesiastes 3:1</a></span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai; font-size: large;">Last night, I cried myself to sleep. I cried because I was grieving something, something deeply personal. This post isn't about what I grieve, but about how important it is to grieve. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai; font-size: large;">All of us will experience times in our lives when we will grieve, but much of our grieving we do in private and more often than not for private reasons. People expect you to grieve the loss of a loved one. It's "acceptable". Like your grief is looking for acceptance! I've heard, and I'm sure you have too, people say things like, "why are they crying over it still?" or "what is the big deal anyway" or "that was a long time ago, they should be over it by now" or "it's not like she was pregnant enough to get attached". Yeah, I've heard one, actual all of them and much more. People put conditions on other people's grief, which is why so much of it is done in private. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai; font-size: large;">Verse 4 of Ecclesiastes 3 says "a time to weep, and a time to laugh, a time to mourn; and a time to dance;" God knows that we will have times in our lives when we cry ourselves to sleep. Times when the sadness of loss, in whatever form, will overwhelm us. Solomon, the wisest person ever, wept too. He did, even though it's never mentioned (or at least not that I can think of right now). I know he did, because he was human, and we all experience times of grief. Jesus did. He wept. John 11:35</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai; font-size: large;">The fresher the moment the deeper we tend to grieve. Our day feels bookended by our grief and more than likely filled with it too. We move through our grief and find moments of sunshine and laughter in our day. Our tears at night may still be there, but we realize the grieving isn't a constant anymore. We get to a point where the grieving only comes on us when a reminder presents itself. The grief is still there, but the level of intensity is different. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai; font-size: large;">Once again, that kind of grief is experienced, at some point in life, by all of us. We all have lost and will lose people in our lives that bring these times of grief. But we also have the less acceptable times when we grieve. The times that others actually judge our grief, judge us. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai; font-size: large;"><span>Hannah cried silently to the Lord and Eli misunderstood and thought she was drunk. He didn't understand that what he witnessed was grieving. Others misunderstand, judge, or even ridicule so much of what we grieve because they don't understand. I don't understand everyone's private area of grief. I don't know all the hurt or sadness that brings the tears. I don't know the desire left unfulfilled that causes their mourning. I don't know their loss of what was or what can never be. I've not experienced what they have, so I can't comprehend the level of grieving it brings. Just because I don't understand theirs doesn't mean I don't understand their need to process through the grief and reprocess that grief when it comes along again, because it always does. That is having empathy. (I'm not going to go into it but personal pet peeve is when people say we need to learn empathy. Empathy isn't born from learning about a person's problems. Empathy comes from personal experience and understanding that others suffer too. </span><span>It's born from loving people regardless of their problems because I know the hurt I feel for mine is similar to the hurt they feel for theirs. We can learn to sympathize but to empathize, we must experience. </span><span>Okay, that was a long "not going to go into it".)</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai; font-size: large;">What you grieve, literally anything that you grieve, needs time to process through. You need the time. You need the Lord, to heal the deep hurt that caused the grief. Regardless of what anyone else thinks, or whether there is a support group for what causes your grief or not, you need your times to weep, your times to mourn. Don't let your own timetable or anyone else's stop you from grieving. Grieving cut short will only lead to bitterness and anger and despair. Grieve. And understand others' need to grieve, even when you don't understand why they grieve. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai; font-size: large;">Last night was not the last time I will grieve over my pain. I have experienced this grief for years and know that it may never leave me. But I give myself permission to grieve it every time it needs me to. </span></p>Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-85043126535637362032021-01-01T07:23:00.001-05:002023-02-19T06:00:15.984-05:00Wake Up Sleeper, Open Your Eyes<p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">I've been pretty quiet for the last year to year and a half. I haven't thought much about blogging during this time, but yesterday I thought about how long it's been since I've consistently posted. I'm not sure if 2021 holds more posts for me or not but I thought January 1st is a good day to write one. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">I'm one of those rare people who dream in non-REM sleep. Yes, we exist. You can google it. I dream in both REM and non-REM states. Dreaming in non-REM feels almost like being awake and those dreams, or at least details from them, tend to stay with me once I wake up. Sometimes the dreams are more verbal than visual. This morning my dream included the words "Wake up sleeper. Open your eyes." playing over and over again, and me, even asleep, feeling like God was speaking to me. When I did wake up the dream stayed and I began to ponder. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">You see each year I ask God for a word or phrase for the year. I did this before the whole One Word thing even started. Now I'm wondering if this is the phrase for 2021? I like it if it is. It won't be easy though, because it's an action phrase. Now that I think about it most of the words or phrases He's given me are. But waking up is something I'd rather not do. See I love to sleep! I love to pull the covers close and snuggle in and dream away. Waking up spiritually can be hard too, because, well it means I have to stop dreaming my way. I need to open my spiritual eyes and see what He wants me to see, to dream, to work towards. Waking up means putting aside a sweet dream and living. Getting out of bed and getting started. It means responsibilities and work. It's no longer focused on the dreams I may have for how my life should go but actually doing the work necessary to live the life He has for me. Which sometimes, thankfully, match up with what I dream. (I feel like I'm trying to talk myself out of thinking about this being my phrase for 2021.)</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Yesterday I heard a song for the very first time "Spirit Lead Me" song by Michael Ketterer. (It's not brand new, I've just never heard it.) The words line up with everything I've been experiencing lately. When I heard it, I thought for sure that would be my phrase for the year. Now, I need to get quiet and listen to see which of the two, or something completely different, is the word or phrase for 2021. </span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arima Madurai;">Because it's quite possible that it was simply a dream and my cat, Chester, was sending me wake up messages so I would feed him. 😂</span></p>Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-43599590687331752422020-12-04T06:20:00.005-05:002023-02-19T06:01:31.786-05:00Giving Due to the Right Source<div style="text-align: left;"><span style="background-color: white; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-63292a84-7fff-1cef-5298-e3d488236615" style="font-family: Arima Madurai;"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">I have had my losses, frustrations, fears, and tears in 2020, but I refuse to give a year any power. 2020 isn't the cause of any misery, it's just the year in which it happened. There is one who likes to hid right under the surface and watch gleefully as people continue to attribute his handiwork to anything and anyone else but him. he doesn't seem to mind never getting the credit. he seems to be quite okay with us thinking it's the storm, the disagreement, the accident, the illness, the whatever and not him. 2020 is simply a number. It has no power at all. The memes and jokes may be funny but I wonder sometimes if he laughs hardest because we keep blaming every bad thing on a series of dates on a calendar and not the evil that he is. I refuse to blame anything else on 2020. I put the blame square on the shoulders of satan.</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">BUT...</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">there have been weddings, new babies, new friendships and relationships, new jobs, new homes, promotions, new passions, giving, kindness, renewed relationships, gifts, uplifting, seeking Jesus, miracles, laughs, and cherished memories in this year too. Those things and all the good come from the One and He enjoys us talking about Him and to Him. He longs for relationship with us. He wants us to see Him at work in our lives. He doesn't skulk in the shadows, but He does speak quietly to us. He doesn't cause voices to rise in anger yet loves to hear them rise in joyful laughter, encouraging words, deep meaningful relationship building talks, song, exhortation, and praise.</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Let's give blame where it is due, on who deserves it, but then stop feeding it. Instead let's turn our ears and eyes, hearts and minds, and attention and acknowledgment on the One who can take any and all plans of the other one and turn them to Good.</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline;">Refuse to let 2020 end without seeing the good that took place. And properly mourn what and who was lost in it. As you mourn and as your reflect, look for the Good and remember to breathe a "thank you" that even in mourning He is there and in rejoicing He is there.</span></p></span></span></span></div>Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-70008829109046557222020-02-25T18:55:00.000-05:002020-02-25T18:55:24.387-05:00A Year's JourneyA year ago I started a journey. A journey of becoming the woman, the wife, My Beloved needs. My Beloved's identity is still a mystery to me, but over the last 365 days I have fallen in love with him. Yes, I know exactly how insane that sounds! But it's true!<br />
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I asked God what I needed to do to become this woman. The first thing I started was to purge. I purged a lot of the stuff that was overwhelming my home. It has been so freeing. I have donated boxes, many boxes, bags, and crates of items. I have thrown away stuff, lots of stuff. I am not done yet. Like I said, it's freeing and I want to have less. I will never be a minimalist, but I certainly will be a lot less-ist. (Yes, I made that up.)<br />
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That was a practical change, and a good one, but definitely not the most important one. That change was prayer. I pray for this man. In the past, I prayed for God to bring a man into my life, but I didn't pray <b>for</b> him. I searched Pinterest for prayers for my future husband. I came across a lot of blogs and basic ideas of how to pray for him. Then I found a woman who created 40 prayers for husbands. These prayers involved praying Scripture over him. So for nearly a year, I have prayed one of these prayers over My Beloved almost every day. Now, there were times when I felt sure that they were just words and that I was fooling myself by praying for this "imaginary" man. There were days I felt too sad to pray at all. Doubt plagued my thoughts. Other days, I prayed through the doubt and fear. There were times I cried in fear through each and every word. But most days, thankfully, I pray for him with joy. I pray for him with tears of joy more than ones of fear. And honestly, it is the very best part of my day. I read my daily Scripture and then I pray for My Beloved. My heart loves him so much that I feel like it's going to burst as I pray! Once again, I know how insane that sounds.<br />
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The thoughts of how crazy this all is and the feelings of my heart war almost daily. I'm not young and the wait has been long. Like I said, I don't even know who this man is that I pray for. But I do. And love him. Wow, this post is definitely more honest than I planned for it to be. I was just going to write about the journey, but this blog has brought out the raw in me so many times before, so why should this time be any different.<br />
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This year has also been one of the hardest of my life. I don't want to go into that at all, because that's not the point of the journey. But I do believe the struggle is part of this journey. God is using every cruel comment, every judgement, every lie about me, to make me a better person and somehow the better woman, wife, that I need to be for My Beloved. I can't say I understand, or like it, but I am thankful for it. This part of the year's journey is important too.<br />
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I would love for the end of this year to bring me face to face with My Beloved, but if God's plan is to continue longer without knowing him then I will take it. I can take it because I trust the One who is taking me on this amazing, crazy, sometimes painful, but also joy-bringing journey. <br />
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<br />Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-84743469274508363802020-01-27T18:54:00.003-05:002020-12-04T06:31:33.201-05:00Fight or FlightI think most of us have heard the saying "it's either fight or flight", but I never really understood what it meant. No, I know it means that when faced with a harmful, maybe even deadly situation, hormones kick in and a person or animal either fights to survive or fleas and hopes to survive by getting away. I mean I never understood it until I lived it.<br />
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Years ago, I flew! I knocked on a door, heard an angry voice on the other side, handed over the plate of cookies when the door open and then flew. I don't remember deciding to run away. One moment I was trembling as I stood at the open door and the next I was opening my car door. I don't remember anything in between. I've tried but I can't. Do I look back and wish I had stood my ground? There were times I did, but now, more than 10 years later I am so glad I didn't. Not that I'm proud of fleeing, but ultimately it was a situation I did not need to be in.<br />
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The other day I felt my emotions start to veer in an unhealthy direction. My mind started into overdrive and a voice told me, "run! Hide deep within yourself! Lock yourself away so you don't have to feel those bad feelings!" And that was when I realized I had flown many a time before. In the past, I hide. When it got too scary to feel strong emotions I hid them deep down. I didn't stand up and fight back. I flew. For years, I lived behind the wall. The wall that hid the real me away from almost everyone. There was a false sense of safety behind that wall. If I dared peek out from behind it and found myself in an emotionally scary situation I dove right back behind it, dusted myself off, and claimed I was safe. But the truth was I wasn't safe at all. I was living in a perpetual state of fear. God broke that wall down. But the voice tried to convince me to built the bricks back up again. I only listened to the voice for a moment before I declared, "no!"<br />
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That was a much bigger fight moment than if I had put up my fists and punched someone who had threatened me. Let's face it, I can't really punch anyway. I have two brothers and they made it clear when I was younger that I couldn't really punch. But let's just say I could. My standing up to that voice and saying, "no!" was a wallop!<br />
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I've come to learn that the "simple" act of standing is fighting. Exodus 14:13-14 has taught me a whole new way to look at fight or flight.<br />
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This group of recently freed slaves were weak from their years of bondage. They weren't soldiers. They were men, women, and children who stood with their backs against an impassible sea and looking into the billowing dust caused by the Egyptian chariots that came to crush them. I've read that they were surrounded, not by the Egyptians and sea alone, but by a range of rocks that they couldn't climb and possibly a garrison belonging to this same army which came thundering toward them. They really had no way to flee to safety. Any direction they ran in would result in their deaths. God told them not to fear. Fear would make them flee into certain death. So they had to fight and God told them to do so by standing firm. Not get out any weapons they may have had among them. Not dig in. Not get into military formation. Just stand, stand firm in the face of destruction. And then He told to be quiet. I'm sure every woman there wanted to scream out in terror. I'm sure children wanted to cry hysterically. I'm sure even the men wanted to fall to their knees and cry in despair, but God told all of them to be silent. And He made it sound easy, "<b>all</b> you have to do is be silent." Oh, is that all God? Just don't be afraid of this overwhelming enemy; stand before them like we won't get plowed into the ground by their chariot wheels; and don't make a sound!<br />
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See, He fights for us. We still have the choice, fight or flight, but one we do all on our own. If we flee, we run right into our own destruction. We run behind walls that hid us in from the bad and also keep us from anything good. We try to climb mountains we were never meant to and we fall time and time again, until we are too broken to even make another attempt. Or we fight. Not with our fists. Not by outshouting our enemy. Not with weapons. Not with war horses or chariots. We fight when we let Him do the battling. The battle belongs to the Lord and all we need to do is fear not, stand firm, and be quiet.Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-67986377431092023552019-11-15T19:10:00.001-05:002019-11-15T19:10:26.970-05:00Who Would Have Guessed They'd Have Anything in Common with Rahab?There are people in the Bible who I have been able to connect with; many that I could see myself reflected in their stories, their fears, their failures, and even the way God moved in their lives. One person I never thought I had all that much in common with is Rahab. Yesterday, I realized that I do have something in common with her; I think most of us do.<br />
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Rahab had an unrealistic faith in a God she had only heard stories about. She was the only one in the whole city of Jericho who believed in this God and that He was all powerful. She asked to be saved from the impending doom that was coming; from the complete destruction of her people. She hung a scarlet cord out her wall-dwelling window and waited. Waited for the Israelites to cross over the Jordan, on dry land. Waited as they marched around the city over a seven day span. Waited as the walls began to creak, shift, and crack. Waited while fear spread throughout the city. Waited while walls crumbled around her home. Waited while the Israelites spread out through the city to capture it. Waited until they came and saved her and her family from all the death and destruction around them.<br />
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I never really thought about her waiting before. I never thought about the worry and fear that she must have felt. I never thought about how her rational mind must have fought with the deep knowing of her heart that the God of the Israelites was the One True God. I never considered how it felt to live in the midst of Jericho falling. I honestly never thought about it at all. Somehow in my mind I saw it all as the Sunday School lesson: she hid the spies, she helped them escape, the Israelites walked around Jericho, the walls fell, and she and her family were saved. Neat and tidy. No fear. No worry. No massive crumbling stones. No death screams. No need to escape through a battle.<br />
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I may never face a real life situation anything close to hers, but spiritually, that's a different story. Take any step of significant faith and a battle will begin. The battle within between my rational thoughts and a deep heart believing faith in His Promises. The battle to believe when others won't. The battle of hearing satan's lies and trying to ignore them and shut them out. The battle to take doubt and fear thoughts captive. The battle of waiting and waiting and waiting. The battle to wait and see how God will win.<br />
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I realized that I am a lot more like Rahab than I would have ever thought. I hope that my faith is like hers. She might have had doubts, I don't know how she couldn't, but she stayed inside her home and believed even as the unthinkable raged around her. I want to believe what my mind can't fathom. I want to hang out my faith cord and stay firmly standing in the place He has me in while I wait. I want to come out of the battle, free and seeing the familiar around me as more than just my home, but as my Promised Land. I want to be more like Rahab and be a woman who believes in God above all else.Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-91912749028857609742019-10-27T06:26:00.001-04:002020-12-04T06:35:06.194-05:00How Can a Football Game Cause Fear?I grew up in one of those small Upstate New York towns where during football season most people went to the games. Unlike many high schools, there were no lights so home games were played on Saturdays. The home side had no stands, but rather a hill that fans camped out on or moved up and down the field with the play. I enjoyed going to home games and going on occasions to Friday night games when they played a local town. I liked watching football on TV. I had a favorite team, still do. <div>
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It was cluster night, which meant that the elementary schools and the middle school that feed into the high school would have students and staff there to represent. My last school is in this cluster. Although there are many that I would love to see, there are a few I would gladly never see again in this lifetime. I let fear of seeing them crowd my mind and heighten my anxiety. </div>
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When I was younger, I thought the Israelites were so foolish. That was how they were presented in church, as people who were foolish and that we were somehow wiser than them. We would shake our heads at the silly choices of them. How could anyone linger in a desert for 40 years instead of entering the Promised Land? How could they fear the people there, when the Lord had already parted an entire sea for them to cross over and on dry land no less? He wiped out their enemy who sought to destroy them right before their eyes as the walls of water came crushing down upon them. Ha, how can I still let fear keep me in my own wildernesses? How can I forget the times He destroyed my spiritual enemies right before my eyes? </div>
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I want to enter the Promise Land and not let fear win the battles in my mind and of my heart. I want to look fear in the face and remind it that the Lord who crushes enemies has already won. I want to go to football games and anywhere else without fear of loneliness or fear of seeing others who have hurt me. I wish I was brave enough to just let God deal with the fear and move in the life He plans for me.</div>
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Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-63483574125235120182019-07-22T20:22:00.001-04:002019-08-04T19:37:26.130-04:00The Biggest Lie of My LifeI'm not sure why on July 22, 2019 God has asked me to share something I don't believe I have ever shared with anyone. But He just brought it to my heart and mind and said "share". I know my blog audience is small, it's much smaller than it used to be, but God has been churning out posts this month for a reason. So here goes.<br />
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People often say that you will never forget your two birth dates, the one one which you were physically born and the one that you were spiritual born on, but I can't tell you one of them. It's not that I don't remember my conversion experience because I remember most of it quite well, but rather it's because it was the first time that I know of that satan spoke to me. I hear stories of people's saved experiences and the joy of that time is so evident in what they say. I don't have that experience. Mine brought me shame for years!<br />
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I was 9 years-old and my two brothers and I were invited by a friend to a Kid's Crusade meeting. I remember sitting in the room with my brothers right next to me as this woman shared with us about Jesus. I don't remember exactly what she said, but I remember enjoying it and wanting the things she was sharing. I wanted Jesus! The point in the meeting came where everyone was to bow their heads and close their eyes and if they felt like they wanted to accept Jesus they were to pray the words she spoke. I prayed them! I wanted Jesus! I felt the warmth of Jesus coming into my heart and a smile spread across my face. Then we opened our eyes and she asked us to either stand up or put our hands up, I don't remember which, if we had prayed the prayer and accepted Jesus. That was when satan spoke to me.<br />
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He told me I couldn't do that. He said I wasn't good enough to claim I had accepted Jesus. He asked me, "what will people think of you if I admit you needed Jesus? Won't they think you are bad?" So while others around me, including both of my brothers declared they had accepted Jesus I just sat there. I was embarrassed. He convinced me that I wasn't worthy of claiming salvation. That wasn't the end of his lies, because when I told my mom I had accepted Jesus he spoke again, "no you didn't because you did stand (or raise your hand)." The day that should have been the most exciting day of my life was ruined by lies.<br />
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This went on for years. I can remember being in middle school and thinking that I wasn't saved. Satan told me over and over again that because I didn't declare Jesus before those other kids I was not a Christian. He told me that it didn't matter that I had my very own Bible that I read. He told me it didn't matter that I went to church and Christian school, that I sang about Jesus and talked about Him and even loved Him. He told me none of it mattered because I listened to him on that day when I was nine and didn't declare it.<br />
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I can't tell you exactly when, but I know I was a teenager when I finally stopped believing the lies. God finally broke through the web of lies satan had spun and assured me that I was saved. He assured me that I had declared before others time and time again my salvation. I remember feeling the joy and freedom of that realization. I guess that it is what others felt when they had their conversion experience.<br />
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I've wondered over the years why satan worked so hard to convince me. Who am I that he would work so hard? I'm not going to claim that I had it any harder than my brothers, but in some areas of my life I have. Just like in some areas of their lives they had it harder than me. Why didn't try to convince them? Why did he just pick me to torment with these lies? I have felt since I was nine years old the tug of satan to pull me off track. He succeeded from time to time, but God always lead me back. I would think as a mid-aged woman (this is the first time I've considered myself that) that by now I would know. I would have seen what he worked so hard to prevent. I know my teaching is a ministry and I hope that the boys and girls who I have taught were ministered to by me. Somehow I don't think that's it though. I feel like there is something more to my life, something more important that I am made for. I believe satan wanted me derailed so that I couldn't get there. Once the lies were exposed he moved on to other areas to lie to me about and the biggest area of my life that has been affected is my relationships with males.<br />
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My earthly father was not a good example of a husband or father. I kissed Allen on the playground when I was five. That makes me giggle a little, because that's all I remember about him, his name, but it was my first "relationship". I never had much in the way of boyfriends when I was young. I had a couple boyfriends in middle school, but one relationship ended so badly it soured me from relationships for years. I liked a boy in high school, a lot! He and I were great friends and spent a lot of time together in the library, but my feelings for him were much stronger than his for me. I asked him to my senior dinner (my Christian school had no prom or formal) and he agreed to go with me. My mom and I went dress shopping and bought shoes and I had my hair done. But he never showed up. I went through the evening, which I can tell you barely anything about, with a fake smile on my face and a heart that was broken. I went to college and had a few crushes, but never pursued any relationship. There was this one guy, Joe, who I spent a long evening with in the ER. That's a totally different story. After that, when he would see me he'd say "hi" and be friendly, but I was so unsure of myself I blew it and he stopped trying. It was years before I liked anyone again, and looking back I can see that my motives were based on the fact that I loved his son as if he was my own and not that I really loved this man. But I plotted and manipulated and tried too convince God he was the one. He wasn't and now I can say I am glad that God said "no!"<br />
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I can't say for 100% certainty that my future marriage is why satan has been so actively trying to divert me throughout my life, but I do believe God has a husband all picked out for me. I doubt that too, but I believe it more that He does than that He doesn't. I don't know what it is about me possibly being married that satan would try to stop it. But I do know that at nine I was saved and he started lying to me, and at ten my heart's desire to have a family, a husband and a whole bunch of kids, was birthed in me. Someday I hope that all my years of waiting, crying, and attempting to be pushed off track will result not only in a marriage to the man God has picked out just for me, and the child(ren) He has chosen me to mother, but a testimony that satan realizes he failed to stop from happening. I hope that God will give me insight and words to share of His amazing miraculous working power. I pray that my testimony will minister to others and give them hope. I want to declare through my marriage and family that God does indeed restore all the years that they locust has eaten!Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-88893459901339164442019-07-18T10:44:00.002-04:002019-07-18T10:44:55.444-04:00Tears in a Bottle<div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; margin-bottom: 6px;">
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Today my heart aches, but it has been aching for about 5 months. I have tossed a lot and cried many tears. It comforts me to know that God collects my tears, He knows every toss and turn. He's heard my prayers and my praise. I'm not sure how much longer these present troubles will be, but I know He has plans, good plans, that will equal and exceed all the tears. He never said, "don't cry your tears" instead He collects them. He uses them to water my soul, heart, and mind and He grows something more beautiful than I can think or imagine. Some day I will praise Him for the fruit produced during this season, but right now I praise Him for counting and collecting and being with me every second bringing me comfort and peace beyond my understanding.</span></div>
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Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-19688511325571814272019-07-16T21:22:00.000-04:002020-02-08T05:59:53.162-05:00When It's Out of My Hands<div style="text-align: center;">
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Those two lines of Building 429's song, <i>Fear No More, </i>jumped out at me and hit me right in the middle of my plotting brain. I was driving to a local coffee shop to meet a friend to work on some online PD, and my mind was replaying a phone conversation I had earlier this morning, actually two phone conversations. One brought my doubts to the surface and the other made me wonder why no one else put 2 and 2 together like my brain was thinking. I started to figure out how I could manipulate, yup manipulate people into seeing the two 2's and make me the answer. My brain was right in the middle of, "I should call ___ and ask her to..." when those lines from the song interrupted my thoughts. </div>
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"Can I really let it be out of my hands?"</div>
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Can I really stop wanting things done now? Can I really stop trying to get things done my way? Can I stop the manipulating thoughts and even words and actions? Can I really stop trying to tell God how to do it? The answer is simple, yes. but it isn't easy. </div>
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When someone asks, "how are you remaining so calm?", it's simple to reply, "I know God's got this." But it's not easy to just let Him. It's simple to pray, "Lord, let your will be done." But it's not easy to really mean it. It's simple to say, "I know God's going to make a way where there is no way." But it's not easy to stare into the unknown and believe when all you see is vague and shadowed. It's simple to put on a smile and make others think your okay with the unknown and waiting. But it's not easy to hold back the tears while you're driving in your car alone. It's simple to pray day after day after day for months, years, for a a man I do not know. But it's not easy to believe God actually has a husband for me who is benefiting from those prayers. It is simple to find things on Pinterest for "the kids". But it's not easy watching mothers with their kids and wonder if I'll have that desire fulfilled. </div>
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"When it's out of my hands"</div>
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It is! God tells me on an almost daily basis because my faith is that small, "be still", "I'm fighting for you", "wait patiently", and "do not fear". He reminds me that it is out of my hands. I can't make the job appear. I can't make the judgments of me change the opinions people have. I can't make a man fall in love with me. I can't make a child suddenly appear in my life. I can't make money fill up my bank account. I can't stop the unexpected from happening. Those things are out of my hands. </div>
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I can only do what I know God has called me to do. "Ask, seek, knock", "expect Him to do above and beyond what I can ask for", "wait and see that the Lord is good", and "know that the battle belongs to the Lord." Every time I try to make things happen the results are bad, sometimes devastating even. But when He gives me an action step to take and I take it, I see the puzzle pieces being put into place. I don't get to see the box. I don't know what the finished masterpiece will look like. God doesn't even place the edges first. He puts one piece next the ones already in place. He already knows the image on the box, and He knows there are no missing pieces. </div>
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When it's out of my hands, I can really let it stay out of my hands! I can simply trust that everything is in His hands, even when trusting isn't easy. </div>
Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-45512172357948131772019-07-12T22:12:00.001-04:002019-07-12T22:12:41.685-04:00A Pruning Session<div style="text-align: center;">
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As I was wrapping up another episode of God Showed me Something About Me: the Pruning Edition, I smiled and said, "God is this bloggable or is this just between us?" Yes, bloggable is a word because I just clicked Add to Dictionary when it said it was spelled incorrectly. Obviously, He said, "bloggable."</div>
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This morning I posted about watching two episodes from The Chat with Priscilla, and this evening I was intrigued to see what other episodes she had. I scrolled through them and found another part 1 and 2 and these were with her siblings. I clicked on part 1 and listened to her and her older sister speak and I heard pearls of wisdom, that they either learned from their experiences or from their parents. One that I think is so freeing is about parenting. Her sister, Chrystal, said, "Adam and Eve had the perfect parent and they messed up." They discussed that children have to make their own choices and parents have to let them own their choices. Parents can pray and support but they can't fix their children's choices. Part 2 continued as their two brothers joining them and the four of them shared some of the things they learned through life and from their parents. I took away many pearls of wisdom from listening to them.<br />
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When it was over, I started to talk to God. Most times I converse with Him as if He is sitting right there, rather than in a "traditional prayer" way. I've always been the one who looked up when people say "let's bow our heads and pray", especially outside I love to look up at the sky. I don't do that to rebel, okay maybe sometimes I did, but because I feel that as I talk to Him I should be taking in what or who He has created. Sometimes I do close my eyes when I pray, especially when I cry to Him, but not often. Anyway, I started talking to Him in a conversational way about what I took away from The Chat, and in particular what I gained from Chrystal's quote above. For anyone reading, who doesn't know I do not have children, nor am I married. Put I do have a few children that God has placed on my heart, some I only know about, I don't actually know them. I pray for them often. Sometimes I pray for them as a group and sometimes individually. As I said, some I don't really know but as I pray for them I believe Holy Spirit gives me insight into how to pray. For the ones I know, and their choices, I started to pour out my thoughts to God for them based on what Chrystal said. Soon, I found myself in tears praying for them, but also realizing that I want them to be good for me. I remembered a time I had asked one to do something for me, something that was hard to do and I knew it would be a challenge. Well, a few days went by with great follow through and then one day a 180 happened. I was so frustrated by the behavior, but as I talked to God tonight, I realized I was more bothered that it wasn't done for me than I was that it wasn't a good thing to do. I was expecting their decisions to be made to please me rather than to do the right thing because it was the right thing. I felt a pruning snip with that realization.<br />
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As I continued to talk Holy Spirit started to show me things for another child, one I don't really know. I saw confusion and a glimpse of a bad example that was potentially defining for this child. I felt this intense need to pray against generational curses that may be at work. That lead me to talk with Him about generational curses in my own family. I poured out prayers of thanksgiving for ones broken, as well as prayers against those that still effect members of my family, even myself. As my time talking to Him about this area ended I felt another snip.<br />
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God made me realize that He is still preparing me to be a wife and a mother, or mother figure. He spoke into an area in me that needs some snipping. I have always wanted others to see me in a good light and therefor I needed to be super. The biggest area in my life where this is evident is that I must be Super Teacher. Not that I expect that I will be the best teacher ever; that I know I am not. Yet I wanted others to think of me in that way. Super Teacher is the one parents request. Super Teacher is the one kids say, " I hope I get her as my teacher next year." Super Teacher is respected by administration and other teachers. This year, Super Teacher took some significant hits, and today I realized that part of the reason it hurt so much was because I can't be, shouldn't strive to be, Super Teacher. As that pruning snip became evident this evening, I also realized some of that wife/mother-to-be preparing include breaking the false thinking that I will be Super Wife and Super Mom. I planned, and yes I know it's completely crazy to expect it of myself, to be Super Wife. I planned to always be loving, to always respect and honor, to never argue with him, to be the perfect wifey. God made me admit that there will be times I don't like my husband. There will be times he will say or do something and I won't want to honor him. There will be times I will be selfish and pouty and definitely not Super Wife. Likewise, He showed me that I won't always be the Super Mother I had convinced myself that I planned to be. I won't always be smiley, let's bake cookies or make a craft, or go to Chick fil a and enjoy a meal and playtime in the playroom. Snip. Snip. Snip.<br />
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This internal pruning session continued as one area I talked with about He lead to another and another. I cried and I laughed and I learned more about myself. Next week I'm getting my hair cut, and I know it needs to be done. I look in the mirror and I think it looks heavy. My hair tends to bounce when it gets cut. If I say only take off an inch, but the stylist thinks that's too little and cuts 2 or 3, my hair bounces even more and ends up looking much shorter than it actually is. I have had more than one apologize that they cut too much off and I just have to smile and say, "that's why I told you my hair bounces up when cut." I hope that this evenings pruning session do that for me. Make my bounce up and be lighter, healthier, and happier. None of us likes being pruned, but I am thankful for my time with Him this evening and the things Holy Spirit revealed to me to help me pray for others, but also to have pruned away from me.<br />
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Disclaimer: my current stylist always cuts just the right amount. She's amazing! 😁</div>
Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-92083063486515144002019-07-12T10:25:00.000-04:002019-07-12T10:25:37.580-04:00You Fulfill Me, Well Not Exactly<div style="text-align: center;">
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Most of us have seen at least one movie where the cheese line "you complete me" or "you fulfill me" has been uttered. Those of you who love Hallmark movies, especially the Christmas ones subject yourselves, I mean enjoy watching, characters say this line or something close to it. The line nauseates me. Could you tell? Why do we keep hearing it movies and TV shows? Because people believe it is possible. Well, I don't. Well, not exactly.</div>
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Yesterday, I was watching a cute animal video and as it ended the next video came up and it was "What Men Wish Women Know" part 2 from The Chat with Priscilla. I had no idea there was such a thing! Well, I was intrigued but thought I should look for part 1 and watch that first. A quick search and I was watching Priscilla Shirer talking to five men, one being her husband and another her brother, about what women should know about men. I was intrigued but what these men, four of whom were married and one not, had to say about various topics regarding what men think, feel, and need. I had to watch part 2 as soon as part 1 ended. It was an hour of my life that I am very glad I experienced. Why? Not just because I learned something about a man that I hope will help me in a relationship with one (hopefully soon). But a deeper understanding come to light for me. Bear with me as I try to explain. I'm not sure I will do as well explaining it as God revealed it to me, well, I'm sure I won't.</div>
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The saying, "you fulfill me" is inaccurate, but not completely wrong. As a teacher, I have a part of my very existence that needs children in order for it to be fulfilled. I can plan a great lesson, set up a warm and inviting room, and attend meetings (okay, those are rarely fun) but without the kids I am not a teacher. The time I spend with them, the discussions we have, the moments they get a new concept, or the joy they find in exploring books, problems, adventures, fulfill the part of me that is a teacher. I need them. I need to impart something into them for that part of me to be fulfilled. I think that might be why the summer months, although very much needed and enjoyed, leave me feeling unfulfilled. People still call me a teacher when I'm not at school, but without the kids that part of me that needs them feels empty. </div>
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Not everyone is a teacher, so let me explain it another way. Let me try friendship. We are drawn to people who we have something in common with, but more than that, we are drawn to people who speak into our lives. A friend should encourage our dreams. A friend should share in our joys and sorrows. A friend should, gently, point out our wrong thinking and help guide us back to the right path. A friend should be someone we pour into, not just someone we take from. I can call myself Friend only if I am doing that for others. If I'm not, why would they want to be around me? To fulfill the friend part of me, I must invest in others, otherwise the relationship is meaningless. It is unfulfilling. </div>
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So in a love relationship, in my case, with a man, he fulfills a part of who I am not just by his mere presence, but rather because I am needed to nurture the part of him only a wife can. He needs me to encourage him with his dreams he can't tell anyone else about. He needs me to speak truth into his life. He needs to know I feel protected by him. He needs to know I feel provided for, not just materially but also that my heart. He needs to know I believe in him, support him, cherish him, love him. He needs to know that he is my one and only. When I am able to do and be that for him, the part of me that is called wife is fulfilled. I need him in order to have that part fulfilled. I am fulfilled not because he has embraced me and kissed me like in all those movies, but because that part of me is fulfilled as I do my part to be his wife. If I am just in the relationship to have him take care of me then I will never experience the fulfillment of being a wife. I think that is part of why marriages fail. The wife doesn't take care of his heart and the husband takes take care of her heart. They don't do the work that fills the needs in their partner, so they feel unfulfilled and that is the beginning of the end of their relationship. </div>
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If all the parts of who I am are doing what they need for the others in my life then I will experience the fulfillment I long for. </div>
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Disclaimer: I know that our ultimate fulfillment comes from our relationship with Christ. But God expects us to go out and fill the parts of us He created us to be, whether it be sibling, friend, parent, spouse, or in our occupations. He called us to do for others in those roles. When we do what He has called us to do we experience fulfillment. It is an interesting catch 22, in order to be a teacher I need students, but if I don't do for them what they need I am just an adult in the room with them. I need them and I need to impart into them in order to wear the title of teacher. I hope this all makes sense. If not, I hope God will do a better job explaining it to your heart.</div>
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Oh, and by the way, I plan to check out more of The Chat with Priscilla videos. You can find them on YouTube. </div>
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Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-55764733251563964082019-07-08T17:05:00.001-04:002019-07-08T17:05:10.823-04:00Hold Out Your Cup<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Another one of those "when is it going to happen" days. Trusting God to move mountains is hard. Today has been a roller coaster of emotions kind of day, no more like a roller coaster of thoughts kind of day. I started off smiling and excited. Then I cried as I thought of someone (not a bad cry, more of an overwhelmed by feeling cry, and unexpected). Then I prayed and felt peace. Then I cried again when an unwelcome offer appeared. Then I wondered if I was being a brat and should just accept. Then I crawled into my bed (okay I just sat on it since the sheets were in the wash) and read a new book, devoured it for a couple of hours. Then I checked on openings, okay I did that a lot today. Then I cried because there weren't any. Then I prayed, I actually did that many times today for various reasons, and asked for exactly what I want (I'm not good at asking for I want). Then I clicked on Facebook and found nothing new since the last time I checked. The same was true for Twitter, email, and Instagram. Then I click on Pinterest and two things showed up on the screen of my phone. The first said, "Stop worrying! I've got this! -God" and the second was the picture above. I didn't even look at this picture though, because I had already smiled and figured God had used Pinterest once again to speak to me. As I started to close the app, I saw it and was drawn to it. </div>
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I know many people know Psalm 23 and consider it a favorite. I am not alone in this, but for me it is more than just some verses I enjoy. I recite them often, when I'm feeling low and when I'm feeling good. Sometimes only certain verses come to mind and I mediate on them. This morning, I read a prayer about trusting God and Psalm 23 was mentioned. For some reason "my cup runneth over" caught my attention, but I didn't think much of it. I thought of it again later in the day, but once again briefly. Then I saw this image and I realized something, that may or may not be profound. I have to hold my cup out. I always thought of it just sitting there on that table prepared for me before my enemies. It's part of the same verse. But this image caused me to wonder, the table is prepared by God for me but the cup is mine. If it's mine, where is it? Do I have it sitting out or shut up in a cupboard? Is it safely set aside so no one can tip it over? Is it behind my back because I am withholding it? I can say that I don't think I'm holding in my two hands, out to the One who longs to fill it to overflowing. </div>
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I jumped onto my online Bible, typed in Psalm 23 and clicked on the tab that takes me to the Interlinear (the Hebrew), and clicked on the Strong's tab and learned "my cup" comes from unused root meaning "to hold together" and in some sort of container. I then clicked on "overflows" and it means "saturation, run over, wealthy, abundance". This made me think of another verse Ephesians 3:20 "Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us." As Priscilla Shirer would say "beyond, beyond". </div>
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My doubt tells me that I will have to settle again for a position I don't want because I need the job. My doubt tells me that I will never marry My Beloved. My doubt says I will have to continue to watch other mothers love their kids and just be okay with that. I already said I have a hard time asking for what I want, and I need to come out from under that and ask. And not just ask, but grab that cup from where ever it is hiding, wrap both my hands around it, and hold it out to be filled to overflowing! Am is saying just because I want it I get it? No, but I need to ask. And I need to believe that whatever He pours into that cup will be beyond blessings for me. </div>
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Imagine how it will feel to have blessings run down my hands and onto others near me! That is the true meaning of abundance!</div>
Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-37303670214464114952019-07-02T09:11:00.001-04:002019-07-03T15:47:15.393-04:00Can and Will Are Not the SameI believe that God can do the impossible in my life.<br />
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Do you see the difference? It's more than just in the wording of the two sentences. It's also in what I believe deep within me. One I believe wholeheartedly. The other I want to believe. Oh, I believe it in those soul-stirring moments of joy, but in the everyday do I? No, I don't.<br />
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I have seen miracles happen in the lives of others. I have marveled at what He has done. I have smiled as others gained long awaited answers to the prayers of their hearts. And I have doubted. Not that He performed the miracle. Not that He marveled. Not that He answered their prayers. I doubt that He will do miracles like that for me.<br />
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In my life He has worked. A lot. I have seen His hand at work in my life, and not just in things others can see, like a house I wanted to buy or a new car when my 12 year-old ride was clearly on her last tanks of gas. Inside me things. Fears released. Healing of long-ago hurts. Changes of perspective. Sins forgiven. Heart softening. Still unbelief festers.<br />
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I pray along the lines of the Mark 9:24 "I believe, help my unbelief!" I am very aware of my unbelief, and I pray He would help my unbelief become belief. I know He can. I wish I believed He will.<br />
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I have a professional desire that I've toyed with for a few years now. But I worry that although I want it, it won't ever happen. I see no open door. I have knocked, many a time, but it has remained closed to me. Is it because it's not the right time? The right desire for me? Is something better in His plan? Or does my lack of belief that He will stop it from happening? Is He asking me to believe fully before He open the door? Not in a dog-and-pony-show way, a you-must-first-show-Me-you'll-believe-before-I-do-it way, but rather in a my faith needs to increase way.<br />
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There are other areas of my life where this is true too. It seems like anytime I tell God what I would like there's this nagging unbelief thing that quickly settles in and chases away a chance to believe. Today, I sighed, hit the submit button once again for a door. I sighed because I instantly went to my believe that He can but He probably won't. The can needs to change to will. Not that I can am trying to force Him to do my will, but my belief needs to change. If it's still the wrong door, I don't want it opened anyway, but that's not the point really. It's that I need to start believing that He is not just a God who can do the impossible, but rather that He will do the impossible. Even if that impossible looks different than what I want.<br />
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Lord, I believe, help my unbelief!Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-35169447543005980682019-06-28T08:57:00.001-04:002019-06-28T08:57:36.359-04:00That Give-Up Voice, Ignore ItEvery single day, for months now, I do arm weights. About a month ago I increased to 8 lbs dumbbells, and the difference between them and the previous 5 lbs ones is significant. I keep my exercise items in a small closet and every time I open the door I see evidence of progression. The 2 lbs weights that led to the 3 lbs weights that led to the 5 lbs weights. It's nice to have the visual reminder that I started off small and have gradually increased the weight. I can also see a difference in my arms, but they aren't tone yet, but are rather becoming toned. A work in progress.<br />
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But there were times along that way that I gave up for a time. They became flabby again. Then the process had to start all over again. Why give up?<br />
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I once lost a significant amount of weight due to working out for at least an hour a day, over a long period of time. I felt fantastic and was even within shouting distance of my goal weight. Then I started following the brown diet: brown rice, brown bread. I started to gain weight and couldn't figure out why. I was still working out an hour a day, sometimes more, but my clothing got tighter and the scale was no longer flashing lowering numbers up at me. I got discouraged! All that work seemed pointless! I stopped working out as hard and eventually stopped working out altogether. I later came to realize I am gluten intolerant and all the brown grains, especially my favorite, bread, were causing me to bloat. I let that bloat turn to fat when I stopped fighting against in by exercise. For about 4 months now, I have been battling back. I have a long way to go, but I am working and seeing results.<br />
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Losing weight, becoming toned, is not the only area in life that I have given up on something that I truly wanted. Off and on for over 30 years I have longed for my heart's desire. There were many times that I gave up on it as simply a pipe dream. I would solidify my giving up by adding to my internal wall and not letting myself hope too much, feel too much, believe too much. A few years ago I let God tear that wall down and would think about my heart's desire but not do much more than think about it. About 5 months ago, I started to do something a little different. I began to journal about it and pray for it. I wish I could say every single day, like the arm weights, but I haven't been that consistent. Lately, though I have prayed multiple times a day, specific prayers in the morning, but then the rest of the day I find myself sending up quick prayers. They can come at any time and for various reasons; something I saw causes me to pray; a particular feeling comes that leads me to pray; etc. I like looking back in my journal and seeing those figurative 2 lbs, 3 lbs, and 5 lbs weights. They are a reminder of how far I've come in my prayer life and my journey to have God prepare my heart.<br />
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This morning as I got ready to pray, I heard that Give-Up Voice. It literally said "why do you even bother?" I smiled and prayed anyway. I knew that voice wasn't from me. I knew who it belonged to. I realized that I must be close to something if that voice bothers to speak to me so directly. I have no idea how close, my human eyes see nothing different, yet he tried to convince me that lack of seeing anything means I should just give up. With my trust in God, because it certainly can't be in me or what I see, I know that I can keep exercising my prayer and preparing muscles. I can focus on my ultimate goal. Maybe I am just a few "pounds" away from my heart's desire.Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-8772337341458586252019-06-25T11:40:00.001-04:002019-06-27T06:39:57.026-04:00I've Got to Let Myself Off the HookHave you ever been so engrossed in your own pain, your own confusion, that you don't think about other people's feelings? I'm going to guess the answer is "yes". Do you do things to protect yourself and ultimately some of those things did hurt others? Think about it and I bet you'll be able to think of a time when it did. I can say "yes" to both of these. Honestly, I think most of the time we are so caught up in our own pain that we fail to recognize that we have hurt anyone else. If we even realize it it is usually well after wards. Not long ago, I did hurt someone because of my own pain and although I didn't know it immediately, I did know within a couple of hours of it.<br />
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I debated about writing about what I had done, but then I realized it would need to be so cryptic because it isn't my hurt to share. What I can share is how the look on the person's face is burned in my brain. I can close my eyes and still see the confusion and hurt. In the moment, I didn't realize that I was the one who caused it. I was genuinely concerned about the person even though I was having one of those tears-are-ready-to-spill-any-moment days, but I decided that I was too emotional to speak to the person about it. I justified my inaction by thinking that my own emotions would just make the situation worse. Instead, I came to realize that my inaction actually did make it worse. If I had simply asked the person what was going on I could have quickly fixed the situation, but I didn't. A couple of hours later another opportunity for me to seek the cause of the pain came up. I wish I could say that I jumped at the chance to deal with it, but I listened to my own hurt and confused emotions and remained silent. Later that same day what I had done to cause the pain flashed in front of my face like a neon sign. The realization that I was the cause of the pain was like a punch in the gut, but still I did nothing. I rationalized that I would be able to deal with it, set things right, another day when my own emotions weren't so raw.<br />
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What do they say about "best laid plans"? Well, a day went by and another and before I knew it a week and then two weeks went by. I still felt the guilt of my unintentional pain causing and my inaction, but I felt that too much time had passed. The other person seemed fine and I convinced myself we could just move on without me saying a word. The problem was my mind couldn't convince my heart to go along with the plan. So weeks after I should have spoken up I finally did something to show how sorry I was. How was it received? Exactly as it would have been weeks earlier. The person realized it wasn't intentional, which of course they had thought it was, and they accepted my apology. Instead of the pain I saw weeks before, I saw a smile and relief. A relationship set back on the right path.<br />
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So why this morning did that pain-filled face flash into my memory? I think for two reasons: one is that I never forgave myself. I sought the person's forgiveness. I cried over how I made the person feel. I asked God to forgive me. But I never forgave myself. I didn't let myself off the hook and was internally still punishing myself for it. So I took the time to pray and accept forgiveness from myself.<br />
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Two is that I came to a deep understanding that no matter how much I try to be good, try to be right all the time, because I really do try, I mess up. I mess up because I have hurts and hardships and in the midst of them I don't think about others. I think back to when I was a kid and didn't get all that I needed from my mom because she was going through her own hurt and hardship. Obviously, as an adult I can understand and I hold nothing against her for it. But deep inside of me I decided that I wouldn't do that too. I decided that in my own strength I would try to always be right, to always be there for others no matter what. I can remember at one point actually thinking that I would never be the adult who would hurt a child. Wow! That's a tall and impossible order!<br />
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In my own strength, my own hurts, my own narrow vision, how could I ever think it was possible? I have been a teacher for 24 years, and worked with kids before becoming one, and I can think of plenty of times I hurt a child unintentionally. Why do I still cling to the idea that I can control this when the evidence is mounting that I can't. Why even as I type this do I still cling to it? How do I let myself off the hook from this impossible goal? I guess the only thing I can do. Let God have it. As I do this, as I let Him help me know I'm off the hook, I feel a weight lessening on my heart. Only He is good, and I have to try to be me, flaws and all. I have to know that although I won't mean to, sometimes I will hurt others. When that happens I need to seek forgiveness from them, from God, and the hardest one of all from myself.<br />
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<br />Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-42326446686827059842019-06-21T06:34:00.001-04:002019-06-21T19:09:50.450-04:00Create in Me a Clean Heart<div style="text-align: left;">
I have noticed that God has repeatedly asked me to do less. What does that mean? Not that He asks me to sit around and do nothing but binge watch Netflix. There are things I have to do, the dishes and laundry just to name two. But the deep stuff, He asks me to let Him do. He is asking me to do less when it comes to the deep stuff. He simply says, "let go and let Me."</div>
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Last night I cried angry tears to God. I used to feel guilt about doing things like that, but He already knows the thoughts, feelings, and frustrations are there so hiding them in silence seems ridiculous. I'd rather have them expressed and out, then trapped in me whirling around and causing me to focus on one of my "favorite" past-times: overthinking. </div>
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When I woke up this morning, one of my first thoughts was, "what verse will I post today?" (I have a Facebook page that I daily post sections of Scripture from a book of the Bible, and sometimes I post verses on a theme. Right now 30 of my favorite verses.) The very next thought was one that makes me sing, literally Keith Green's voice goes through my mind. It is Psalm 51:10 "create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit in me." My heart is angry and it needs to be cleaned and set right, so it seems timely.</div>
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Notice David asked God to do the deep stuff. I can't create a clean heart. I am incapable of such a thing, only God can do that. I cannot renew a right spirit in me. Once again, incapable. Only God can do these things. What can I do? Let Him. Look at the rest of the verses around this one in which David repeatedly asks God to do things he was incapable of: purge, clean, wash, hid, blot, restore, uphold. It would seem we can do these. I'm currently working on purge my stuff, but can I purge my inward most parts? No, only God can do that work. I have to be willing to allow Him to. </div>
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There's this song about scars by I Am They, called, wait for it, Scars, that I think helps me understand this idea even more deeply. The chorus goes "So I'm thankful for the scars - 'cause without them I wouldn't know your heart - and I know they'll always tell me of who you are - so forever I am thankful for the scars." Scars mean wounds but they also mean healing. Some of those wounds come at the hands of others and some are self-inflected. Both need to be healed. David was wounded, just like all of us, and he was asking God to do the work in his life to heal him. Are the scars still visible? Yes, most are, but because they are we know who God is and we can then minister to those who need to know Him and turn to Him. </div>
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I started this post still pretty angry at God. I knew I had to write it because I knew I needed to hear it. I knew it would soften my angry heart and remind me that although I hate the pain, I also long for the healing. I need to continue to let go and let God do the deep stuff in me. I want the wounds healed, so the scars can be used to remind of God's heart for me and for others. </div>
Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-88272463667946351362019-06-15T06:34:00.000-04:002019-06-15T06:34:19.814-04:00Longing to Belong<div style="text-align: center;">
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The Bible cradled in my arms was my baby that I gingerly laid down a a bed made from my coat. The sermon was just noise in the background. My mind was lost in a dream of being a mom to that precious Bible baby. A dream that has lasted a lifetime and involved many baby props.<div>
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This memory is one of the most vivid ones I have. I considerate it the moment my heart's desire was born. The desire to have my own family, husband and children was birthed on a hard metal chair in a crowded sanctuary. A desire that has taken me to the depths of despair and has brought out in me both good qualities and exposed an envy I still struggle with.</div>
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This past school baseball season, I sat among the ones I envy the most in the world, mothers. I cheered quietly for the boys, who aren't my own, that I came to watch. I didn't feel I had earned the right to cheer loudly. They weren't mine and everyone knew it. What would they think if I was as vocal as a mother? I don't have that badge of honor. As much as I love the boys I came to see, each silent car ride home after the game made my heart ache. I wanted to driving a smelly kid home and look forward to getting the well-earned grass stains out of his white pants. Some moms, and I totally get why, drove home dreading the chore of another stain scrubbing event. I envy their struggle. </div>
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Standing among these moms after the game, to congratulate the players, made me feel obviously out of place. I wondered how many thought that I didn't belong just as much as I felt like I didn't. I listened as they talked about school, formals, meetings for the next school year as their boys planned to move up a level, and I longed to be a part of the conversations. I wished I had to figure out my schedule so I could attend the meeting or buy the outfit for the dance. The envy that I felt as they spoke of things wonderful and things that caused planning to pull off made me want to cry right there on the spot. </div>
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Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-75608717777157256062019-06-13T06:44:00.000-04:002019-06-13T06:44:16.766-04:00Being Silent and Waiting for the Outcome<div style="text-align: center;">
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Mordecai and the Jews were meant to be wiped out because of someone else's vanity.</div>
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The last four months have been extremely hard ones for me. No actual prison cells or lions dens, but repeatedly mistreated based on lies and assumptions, and maybe even other's egos has worn me down. I didn't want to venture outside of my own space, for fear of my mere presence causing more hardship. I feel emotional and mentally beat up. I wish that I can say that I have fully trusted God to fight for me, but as the months went it only seemed to get worse and my faith felt smaller and smaller.</div>
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I need to work on a few things as the battle continues: One, being silent and waiting as the Lord battles. He hears the hurt of my hear,t and since He's the only one who can do anything about it, He's the only one who needs to hear the specifics right now. Two, trying to forgive someone who doesn't even seek it is challenging. I pray these words when I'm struggling to forgive: "I choose to forgive (insert name), Lord help me to forgive". I have to keep praying daily, sometimes multiple times a day, until I know that He has helped me to actually forgive. Three, I have to believe that He is battling for me and there is a victory at the other side. Whether it's only an internal victory or one others will witness, doesn't matter as much as believing there is one. Four, I need to reflect and see if and what needs to be chipped away in my heart and mind based on this. It's easy to just "play the victim", but God uses these hardships to remove things for our lives. What do I need to release in my life that doesn't need to be there?</div>
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Mordecai and the Jews were saved and he was great in the king's house.</div>
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Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego were given promotions.</div>
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Daniel prospered during the king's reign, as well as the next king's reign. </div>
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I may never be second in command or named a ruler over anything, but I have to believe that the end of this battle will bring about the promotion that God has for me, even if it's just an internal promotion and no one else even knows. I just need to let go and wait and see what the Lord will do!</div>
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Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8842247460263412665.post-19657550778539146192019-05-15T17:22:00.000-04:002019-05-15T17:22:21.470-04:00Guilty of "If It's Your Will" ThinkingWhat?<br />
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Of course, we should ask for God's will! How can that possibly be a bad thing? Let me explain.<br />
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I am guilty of praying for big things, doubting and being fearful, and since my lack of faith says it probably won't happen anyway I throw on a "if it's Your will" to seal the doubt deal. I use it more to declare defeat than to really seek His will in the situation.<br />
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I can't be the only one who does that! Can I? Please, tell me others use religiosity to lie to themselves that they have faith in His will, but really they don't.<br />
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Yesterday, I was driving to work praying a couple of big prayers. One in particular is truly an area in my life that I want something big to happen. Some thing I believe that is good. Some thing that matches my heart's desire, maybe in a completely unexpected way. But the closer I got to work and the end of my prayer time, I started to doubt and threw out the "if it's Your will" phrase to cover myself, with an emphasis on the if.<br />
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If it's not His will then what can I lose? I won't invest too much of me and my heart if it's not His will. It keeps me safe from moving out of the familiar and into a brave new place. It means no stretching. It means plopping right down in the same place I've lived for most of my life. My comfortable, all be lonely, place. Part of me actually hopes it's not His will every time I utter those words! Oh how "safe" I'd be then.<br />
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Safe but sad. Comfortable but longing. Familiar but unfulfilled. Stuck and unmovable. Fearful. Lonely. Not safe or comfortable when I really think about it.<br />
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Yesterday after my "if it's Your will" prayer, a line from a song playing on my radio grabbed my attention. "Gotta pray, gotta press on to the prize worth fighting for" I kinda felt like God throw His own line right back at me. The proverbial ball was in my court. How would I respond?<br />
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I responded with, "yes God! This is a prize worth fighting for! This is a prize worth believing in. It's worth crying out to You over it. It is worth steps of faith. It is worth discomfort. It is worth allowing You to make it happen and not try to move mountains myself. (Anyone else try to move mountains only He can move? Or worse, ones that weren't mine to be moved at all? I am!) It's worth continuing to believe that I just need to be still and watch You work to make it happen.<br />
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Looking at Jesus as the example. He did pray, "if it is Your will remove this cup from" but He didn't stop there. "Nevertheless, not My will, but Yours be done." Jesus knew His death would be full of physical pain that no man should have to endure. He also knew that it our sin would separate Him from God until His resurrection. None of us can comprehend what that separation would be like. Of course, He ask to have it removed! But He embraced all of it because He loves us.<br />
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So can I embrace His will even though my faith is small and my fear is big? Yes. Even though it will be very different from my normal? Yes. Even though it will be uncomfortable, stretching, and possibly messy? Yes, yes, and yes.<br />
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This morning, as I drove to work and continued my big prayer, I came to the usual "if it be Your will" point and it was a struggle. It really was, not to say it once again. I forced myself to say "Your will be done" instead. It was hard, but after wards I felt such joy. I know it'll take awhile and some serious effort to break my lack of faith habit and prayer with boldness for His will to be done.<br />
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Note - The song is by Jamie Kimmett and is titled "The Prize Worth Fighting For" This song is about Jesus being our reward, but God can use a line in a song any way that He wants to.Kim Peckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127931489470375586noreply@blogger.com0